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01-11-2016 10:06 AM
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01-11-2016 01:45 PM
01-11-2016 01:45 PM
Re: stuck
Hi @gyp
my goodness, it sounds like everything has come at once and like it would feel very overwhelming.
despite your friends being few are they caring, would any of them be able to help you problem solve at a time like this? or make a couple of calls for you? it also sounds like you have experienced bouts of depression before, so perhaps have a psychologist or counsellor who you do currently or at least used to see and may be able to return to seeing? then the housing, is it a request to leave immedately or can you take time to find something? you may need to look at housing agencies in the nearest city...
sorry not sure if this is the kind of help you wanted from us, there is always a feeling of we wish we could do more than moral support, listening and empathy
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01-11-2016 02:28 PM
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Want to get well and have some peace in life. Thx fancy pants for replying its nice to know someone cares.
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01-11-2016 05:28 PM
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Ohhh @gyp I feel for your struggle.
I also have smell issue around such things. It can floor me suddenly still, for me it was my brother ...
Your parent's shocking deaths are not easy to shake so I wonder .
Do what you have to do re current situation and moving out. Let us know how you go.
Sounds like its going to be a big shift. A new horizon ... in an old place maybe??
I made a similar mistake with my husband... still a bit shy of relationships.
You can start new threads about your own story or jump into other conversations.
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01-11-2016 05:47 PM
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01-11-2016 05:51 PM
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Do you have a place to go to .. or can you just work it out when you get to your new place?
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02-11-2016 09:51 AM
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It sounds like now is the time you need to talk through and heal from old and new traumas.
Well done for finding a place to stay so quickly. Is it a place where you will be safe?
Please keep in contact and let us know how you get on.
We are here for you. You are not alone in this journey.
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02-11-2016 10:24 AM
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02-11-2016 10:33 AM
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02-11-2016 10:37 AM
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Yes, when I get sucked into my 'vortex' of depression, it seems like there is no way out. Logically I know this isn't true - as I've come through it before. But during depression, it's hard to hear your logical voice. All I tend to hear at that time is my negative self talk. And that just makes the depression worse.
So, what you are feeling is perfectly normal. And we can and do get better.
It's an emotional and often painful journey - but it is so worth the effort.
I have more good, content and happy times now than I do depression days.
I'm so glad you have a son to help you.