Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

[Former-Member]

Food & drink to keep your energy levels up while you are on the job @Determined 

[Determined]

@Former-Member 

After 5 hours and 1 massive blister I am pleased to say leak located and repaired. 

It was a plastic T junction joiner  that had failed.   Bonus was I had it repaired before the plumber darling and FIL insisted I book arrived saving $$$ 😁

[Determined]

[Former-Member]

Yahoo @Determined 🙌🙌🙌

[Determined]

Keeping a check on the water meter and it seems to have slowed down considerably. 

About 60 Lph including usual household activities. (It was 80Lph + before with everything turned off). 

Still a lot of water in the hole with water level rising but suspecting (and hoping) that it is just from surrounding ground water. (The area is quite waterlogged). 

[Former-Member]

Perhaps another check next family outing @Determined 

[Determined]

I finally got a response from uni today re options available. I am able to finish now if I want with a diploma rather than a full degree. 

(This is an option as I am really over study). 

Still have to do some more research re courses available at our local campus as part of my decision to continue or not. I have a fairly wide scope to choose from in that regard but I do want anything I do to be worthwhile and useful rather than doing something to fill a gap. The only alternative (to continue with study) involves 2 - 3 hours a week in travel. I tried that at the start if this semester and it did not work out. 

I am also contemplating as an alternative applying for a job that in many ways would be perfect. I'm not qualified but have I believe  all of the required attributes and the ability to learn what I need with specific courses. 

[Former-Member]

Trust you will be at peace with decision @Determined @

[Determined]

Thought I was @Former-Member but now I am starting to unwind and can see the possibilities I am not so sure again  I still have another 4 weeks to make a decision so trying not to over think or rush things. 

[Sophie1]

Hi @Determined  I find drawing a mind map always helps me make decisions or at least understand the items influencing my choices - a bit like those walls of photos and events pinned up in the movies with red wool joining them all together ... just a thought 🙂